As I feared, my tomato seedlings started in March are big! Here's a pic:
And here's a comparison between Early Pick, started in March, and Sugar Lump, started 3 weeks ago:
The good news is that by using several strategies, including pinching back the main stem to encourage branching, blowing on them with a fan to build strong stems, and feeding with dilute fish fertilizer every two weeks, I am keeping the older seedlings strong and healthy. I don't even need to to stake them yet.
Early next week I will start hardening off my biggest tomato plants by carting them in and out of the garage in a wheelbarrow for steadily increasing daily exposure to wind and sun. There are 3 varieties: Mortgage Lifter, Early Pick, and Rutgers. Around May 5th I will put a few into the garden. I'll either have really early tomatoes or lose them to frost... It will be an interesting experiment.